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The Coat’s The Thing….

Posted by DINRIL on January 25, 2007

Hmmmmmmm, comfy…….Having posted recently about Emily’s fondness for sleeping in her grandmother’s armchair, it seems I have stumbled upon a way of getting her to take a nap in mine.

Yesterday afternoon I was getting her ready to go out, and she was noticeably tired, but figuring she would nod off in the car I put her coat on – a big pink puffy number which we bought the other week – and popped her in my chair while I went to get myself ready.

When I returned to the room, however, she was fast asleep in the chair.

Perhaps in future if I’m having trouble getting her to take a nap I should just put her coat back on?


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Yes, But What Is It For….?

Posted by DINRIL on January 22, 2007

Perhaps I’ll try drinking out of this mug instead……?Sometimes I’m baffled as to the logic behind certain inventions designed to make babies’ lives easier – while these things may seem logical to a grown-up, present them to the baby for whom they were intended and it’s a very different story.

The other week, for example, I decided to experiment with giving Emily her water in a lidded cup instead of a bottle, since she has been quite happily drinking from her bottle without help (well, she has been putting it furiously, but hasn’t quite realised that you have to tilt it to actually get any liquid out, hence she spends ages sucking in air and looking rather confused).

Sure enough, she reached out for the cup, as she is doing for everything offered to her or within grabbing distance these days. She then proceeded to turn it upside down and push the bottom of it into her mouth, scattering water everywhere as it spilled out of the lid. At which point I decided she probably wasn’t ready for it just yet.

Today, meanwhile, I attempted to soothe a bout of teething discomfort with a special ‘teething biscuit’ that babies apparently chew on to relieve their aching gums. According to the instructions on the packet, you thread a piece of string through a hole in the top of the biscuit, attach it to baby’s clothing and then they happily gnaw away on it  – cue end of discomfort.

In reality, what actually happened was that I diligently followed the instructions then held it out to Emily – who then proceeded to stare at it, play with the string, wave the biscuit around in the air and eventually throw it on the floor (meaning of course it had to go in the bin rather than in her mouth). And it’s hardly surprising really. I mean, how was I supposed to explain to her what the biscuit was for?

Some things of course she is capable for figuring out for herself – toys are for playing with, food is for eating, Mummy and Daddy are for crawling all over and headbutting at inopportune moments. But naturally I’m now left wondering how you explain other mysterious objects to a baby. Maybe if they also came with instruction manuals it might make the whole process easier.

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I Like Driving In My Car

Posted by DINRIL on January 21, 2007

One of Emily’s favourite things – something she’s been fond of since she was a tiny newborn in fact – is to go for a ride in our car. And the fact she enjoys it has come as a huge relief to me, given that babies can be a tad unpredictable where motor vehicles are concerned – some love it, others absolutely hate it, which can’t be much fun for either baby or parent if you’re sitting in a traffic jam or speeding down the motorway at 70mph.

At first she used to spend most of her travelling time asleep – we would barely have put the key in the ignition and her eyelids would be drooping – but while she’s still given to taking naps in her rapidly shrinking car seat, she has also discovered the joy of having an in-depth conversation mid-journey.

Of course she can’t say any actual words yet, so what we get instead is a stream of random sounds and babble (which presumably constitute words in her language), but the sheer enthusiasm of her chatter – to say nothing of the volume – suggest that she’s enjoying the journey, since she seems to be far more vocal in the car than she is elsewhere. I generally provide my husband with a running commentary when this happens, although on occasions when I’m not in the car he has to supply his own translation.

She also gets to look out of the window now at passing vehicles and other sights, something she was unable to do previously due to the sunshade we fitted over the window. I installed this just before Emily was born, since she was a June baby and last summer was a scorcher, and there it stayed until a couple of weeks ago when I suddenly realised that a sunshade probably wasn’t necessary in a cold, grey British winter.

So she can now see what’s going on, and is particularly fascinated by lorries, buses and other large noisy vehicles that take up more than their fair share of space on the road. Quite what she makes of it all is anybody’s guess, but her reaction is always fun to watch.

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The Big Girl’s Seat

Posted by DINRIL on January 16, 2007

Wonder if Mummy and Daddy will notice if I slip this into the trolley?I am delighted to report that after months of sitting in the plastic trolley seat at the supermarket, Emily has finally graduated to the other seat – the one intended for older babies who have gotten the hang of this whole sitting up business.

On today’s trip we originally intended to put her into the plastic seat as per usual but she proved just too big (the fact she was wearing a large puffy coat we bought her at the weekend probably didn’t help either) and we were unable to fasten the straps around her.

I subsequently suggested that since she’s gotten the hang of sitting up straight in her high chair, that she might be ready for the other child seat – the one that allows her to sit up and put her feet through the gaps provided.

And sure enough, she loved it. Quite aside from the freedom it gave her to dangle her legs over the edge of the trolley, it also meant she could look around the store properly, as opposed to the somewhat restricted view the other seat gave her. As the accompanying photo shows, it also gave her a chance to recommend some groceries to us.

Yet I remember a time, not so long ago, when she was too small even for the plastic seat and had to ride in the trolley sitting in her car seat. I’m sure it’ll be only a matter of time till she’s pushing the trolley herself (and no doubt loading it with yet more of Mummy and Daddy’s favourite indulgent desserts) and I’ll be wondering just where the time has gone.

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Crawling Update

Posted by DINRIL on January 16, 2007

Hmmmmm, now what happens if I crawl over here……?One week on, and Emily’s crawling is coming on a treat. Not only is she becoming noticeably faster, but she’s revelling in her new-found mobility and the possibilities it offers.

Suddenly, everything is even more of an adventure than it was before, and it’s not uncommon for me to pop her down on her playmat, only to find her underneath my chair ten minutes later, staring up at me as if seeking my approval.

This development took on a whole new turn yesterday when, while I was having lunch, Emily discovered my seat cushion, and more importantly the fact that it has tassels on which can be pulled. Consequently I sat eating my food while a little hand tugged away, repeatedly, as though the seat cushion were some marvellous new toy.

As a finale she discovered the chair legs, tried to eat them, then subsequently rolled on to her back and got wedged between the chair and the table leg. At which point she decided she was not happy and wanted Mummy to put her back on the playmat, pronto.

We’ve also taken to putting her down in the hallway so she has more space to practise her crawling – although the first attempt at doing this was less than successful, since she’d just eaten a huge dinner, and simply lay on her front, not moving a muscle and staring at us as if to say, “So? What do you want me to do, exactly?”

But the best way we have discovered to really get her on the move is to put her on our bed and then put our phone – still her very favourite toy – just out of her reach. Cue much frantic scrabbling and waving of arms before she pushes herself across the bed at top speed in an effort to reach it. We still haven’t quite figured out why she finds it so fascinating, but anything which gives her an opportunity to try out her new-found skill is fine by us.

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What Is She Thinking?

Posted by DINRIL on January 14, 2007

Actually, mother, I’m plotting world domination…..One of the things my husband and myself have been constantly wondering about Emily is what is going on in that little mind of hers. She’s reached a stage where she appears to be concentrating intently on everything, but we have no idea what she makes of it all.

It’s easy enough to tell how she’s feeling of course – we’ve kind of got the hang of the whole hungry/thirsty/uncomfortable/tired rollercoaster of emotions now. But what she’s actually thinking – and how – remains a mystery.

I’ve often imagined that babies actually do have coherent thoughts, and just can’t actually say what they’re thinking, but that theory could come from having watched Look Who’s Talking once too often.

But I would love to know what’s going through her head when going through the daily rituals of eating, dressing and having her bath. “What’s going on?” “Why am I doing this?” “Hey, this is fun!” and “Oh no, not banana again…..” might seem to be obvious answers. But however well I know my daughter, I guess this is one thing I’ll never know the answer to.

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Chair And Chair Alike?

Posted by DINRIL on January 11, 2007

I think I’ll just curl up in this chair and go to sleep…..Ever since I went back to work, Emily has been spending two days a week with my mother-in-law – and she’s made herself right at home there. So much so that she spends much of the day sitting in her armchair – playing with her toys, watching the world go by and even taking lengthy naps there. I am told that she thinks nothing of nodding off in the chair and sleeping for a good couple of hours without a second thought.

Which beggars the question: how come she never does that for me? To be fair, she’s been a pretty good sleeper up to now and is very good at settling herself at night, but daytime naps are another matter entirely. Take her for a ride in the pushchair or a drive in the car, feed her or give her a drink and often she’ll be out for the count. However, put her down in the cot without attempting any of these things and she’ll simply think it’s playtime.

I also have a very comfortable armchair at home and often let Emily sit in it when I’m getting her meals ready and at other times of the day – yet not once has she ever fallen asleep in it. In fact, she much prefers sitting in it wide awake, cooing and trying to eat her feet.

I have no problem nodding off in it myself – usually when I’m midway through watching a TV programme I really really want to see – but it appears to have the opposite effect on my daughter. Which leaves me wondering why my mother-in-law’s chair has such soporific properties. Perhaps I need to sit in it myself to discover its secret?

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It’s Crawling….We Think

Posted by DINRIL on January 9, 2007

I’m not going anywhere I shouldn’t Mummy, honest….It appears that the day we have been waiting for – the one in which Emily discovers crawling – has finally arrived. Well, sort of.

Yesterday evening, about an hour before bedtime, she was lying on her front on our bed, trying (as per usual), to reach something that she isn’t supposed to have (our phone, to be precise), when she suddenly propelled herself forward with her knees, sliding along on her tummy as she did so.

At first I couldn’t quite believe what I was seeing, or thought perhaps it was some kind of fluke, but then she did it again. At this point I called my husband in, and of course she immediately stopped what she was doing (I’ve lost count of the number of times she has done something terribly clever for me, only to then refuse to repeat it for other people).

To prove that this wasn’t some freak occurrence, I took her to see our next door neighbours, who provided the temptation of their TV remote control (another one of Emily’s favourite things) just out of her reach. And sure enough, she pushed herself forwards again in order to grab hold of it. And then did so once more.

So it appears that we have progressed to some form of crawling, albeit slowly and hesitantly – but given how quickly she has learned to turn herself round in circles, I’m sure it’ll only be a matter of time before she speeds up. And then the days of staying exactly where she is put will be just a distant fond memory.

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Parental Guidance Suggested

Posted by DINRIL on January 7, 2007

Of course I’m old enough for these…..and when I’m done playing I can wear themEmily is seven months old today. And as a special treat on her seven-month birthday (for we always sing Happy Birthday to her whenever another month goes by), I finally got out one of the toys – a set of ring-shaped animals on a stand – which we were given when she was just two weeks old.

The reason I’d been holding off giving it to her was because it said on the label ‘Age eight months and up’ – and naturally I was concerned about what would happen if I gave it to her before she hits that magic number.

As it was, I decided that seven months was quite old enough, and having had a similar toy since she was much younger, I thought the time had come. And surprise surprise, she loved it – and was more than capable of playing with it, despite being below the ‘recommended’ age.

This means one of two things. Either I have a fantastically clever and advanced daughter (a fact we knew already), or age recommendations on toys aren’t always what they seem.

Of course I can see the reason why certain toys are only suitable for a certain age – if there are tiny parts, for example, which small people might swallow, or if the toy in question is too complicated for Mummy and Daddy to figure out, never mind a little girl.

But we’ve been less strict with others – Laugh n’Learn Puppy, for example, is recommended for ages six months and up, yet Emily had learned how to press all the buttons and play the tunes – repeatedly – by the five-month mark. And we showed her toys recommended for older babies when she was younger, even if we didn’t actually allow her to play with them herself.

Like all these things, I suspect a certain amount of discretion comes into it – but of course it could equally have its uses if there’s a certain toy that either myself or my husband fancies having. With that in mind, perhaps I should buy her a Nintendo Wii for her first birthday. Of course, I’ll just have to play with it myself until she’s old enough to use it, but I daresay she won’t mind too much. 

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Taking Sides

Posted by DINRIL on January 4, 2007

In recent weeks, Emily has started waking up again at night, and I was at a loss as to what the problem was. Initially I thought it was teething, then hunger – and indeed, having addressed both of these issues (having the teething gel ready and ensuring she eats like a horse at dinnertime, which is of course sometimes easier said than done), things did improve considerably.

The exception to this was New Year’s Eve, when she woke up just before midnight, and after due consideration was brought into the other room to see in 2007 with us and our friends. It was rather lovely for us but Emily looked somewhat bemused by it all – especially the procession of people letting off celebratory party poppers on our balcony.

Since then, she’s been waking up once a night, whinging for a bit and then resettling almost straight away – but since she didn’t seem hungry and her teeth didn’t appear to be bothering her, I was baffled as to the cause.

And then I realised what the matter was. After months of sleeping on her back, simply because she was incapable of manoeuvring herself into any other position, she has recently been taking advantage of her new-found mobility and rolling on to her side at night.

In fact there have even been times when I’ve looked in on her, to discover her fast asleep, lying right up against the side of the cot, and gripping on to the top of it with her hand. It doesn’t look terribly comfortable, but she seems to like it.

However, I am convinced that when she eventually rolls – or rather falls – on to her back, the impact is causing her to wake up. And she is not happy about it. Of course, I daresay it’ll only be a matter of time before she gets the hang of simply rolling over and nodding off again – but finding her in all manner of odd positions in the cot is something which will take a lot more getting used to.

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